A HYPOTHESIS
(याद रखें,आप और आपकी पत्नी ने अपनी योजना,परियोजना और ढांचा जिदंगी का खुद बनाया है।)
(याद रखें,आप और आपकी पत्नी ने अपनी योजना,परियोजना और ढांचा जिदंगी का खुद बनाया है।)
You joined your service competitively getting selected through difficult examination and thereafter tough interview selection. And very soon you became an Executive Officer in your organization.
You at each step of your success story, made your parents, relatives and friends very proud. Each event had been a matter of jubilation,party and rejoice in your life.
You excelled each day in your career, things were going in the way you had dreamt and planned.
Then came a important turning point in your life, you got married raised a family.
How happy you were, your wife was the next best thing which happened in your journey of life, than came your beautiful kids, may be one, two or three.
Now luck was also on your side, God was with you, he had the best plan and path laid for you.The world looked as the best place.You had the brightest career, your wonderful family, your excellent children's, what more you could ask for.You had everything to take your happiness on the seventh heaven.
If that was your story, than what went wrong thereafter?
You at each step of your success story, made your parents, relatives and friends very proud. Each event had been a matter of jubilation,party and rejoice in your life.
You excelled each day in your career, things were going in the way you had dreamt and planned.
Then came a important turning point in your life, you got married raised a family.
How happy you were, your wife was the next best thing which happened in your journey of life, than came your beautiful kids, may be one, two or three.
Now luck was also on your side, God was with you, he had the best plan and path laid for you.The world looked as the best place.You had the brightest career, your wonderful family, your excellent children's, what more you could ask for.You had everything to take your happiness on the seventh heaven.
If that was your story, than what went wrong thereafter?
HOW YOU & YOUR WIFE BECAME "A MUSIBAT FOR OWNSELF".
Blunder No 1
You and your wife's greed for career progression,choice postings,fast affluence and constant future planning soon ruined your peace and happiness.You had no time for your kids.You left them to be on their own and you and your wife partied willy-nilly all over and everywhere.You became a jolly good fellow, rose in rank very fast and easy.
You and your wife's greed for career progression,choice postings,fast affluence and constant future planning soon ruined your peace and happiness.You had no time for your kids.You left them to be on their own and you and your wife partied willy-nilly all over and everywhere.You became a jolly good fellow, rose in rank very fast and easy.
Blunder No 2
You created assests both movable and immovable at every good station you got posted.Your kids were seeing all this and were happy that their parents are getting richer day by day.They very well knew that all this will be theirs one day and ultimately.
You created assests both movable and immovable at every good station you got posted.Your kids were seeing all this and were happy that their parents are getting richer day by day.They very well knew that all this will be theirs one day and ultimately.
Blunder No 3
You and your wife were either neglecting the children, though providing them with all the life's comfort;or were overbearing and deciding every step for them. Both are harmful attributes of any parents, who are raising their own Childrens.
Since your contribution in deciding their future course, their career was almost nil, your kids went about taking a path and directions as per their wisdom,knowledge and sometimes on advice taken from friend's.
Your kids were rudderless, and you as parents,being guilty;funded their education without any thought and planning.
Your kids travelled to America to pursue their higher studies.The funding was by your affluence which you had created over a longer period of time or through bank loans on education.
You and your wife were either neglecting the children, though providing them with all the life's comfort;or were overbearing and deciding every step for them. Both are harmful attributes of any parents, who are raising their own Childrens.
Since your contribution in deciding their future course, their career was almost nil, your kids went about taking a path and directions as per their wisdom,knowledge and sometimes on advice taken from friend's.
Your kids were rudderless, and you as parents,being guilty;funded their education without any thought and planning.
Your kids travelled to America to pursue their higher studies.The funding was by your affluence which you had created over a longer period of time or through bank loans on education.
Blunder No 4
Your kids were in America, pursuing higher studies and had already indicated that they would now take up job in USA and had no desire to come back.
Times had changed now, you and your wife both were growing old and were also nearing the retirement age.
The realization that you both have been left to remain alone as your kids have no desire and interest to come back to India, had still not set in.
Your kids were in America, pursuing higher studies and had already indicated that they would now take up job in USA and had no desire to come back.
Times had changed now, you and your wife both were growing old and were also nearing the retirement age.
The realization that you both have been left to remain alone as your kids have no desire and interest to come back to India, had still not set in.
You were now in your age 70/80 years.All your friends were equally old and had gradually started withdrawing to remain in their comforts of home.The lucky ones were near or with their kids, happily playing with their grand children
One fine day you or your wife fall sick, you are old and staying all alone in your huge palatial bungalow.You had never believed anyone, supported or helped anyone.You and your wife were the most selfish, self centered kind of people, all the while waiting only for your America settled kids.
The kids who are ready to contribute monetarily but have no time or inclination to visit you in India.And since you both are old, your kids do not wish and desire to take you to America.
You are old, alone and helpless, staying neglected, inspite of all the affluence, property and comfort you have created over a period of time for yourself.
Your kids have no time for you, you are in your own house,in the most worst stage and state.You both are in a situation like poor in an Old Age Home.
The sins, arrogance and selfish attitude of your younger age, is haunting you today. And you want the world to come and help you, Wow!
Your America settled kids have no time and desire to visit you, they have their own duties and responsibilities.
You are therefore reaping the fruits which you had sown.
Yes! They will come to India, once you are both dead and gone, to sell all your property and take the loot with them to America.
"You both", therefore have become
"A Musibat for your Ownself Today".
COBRA
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